If you’re tired of getting ghosted.
There’s a mistake most men make at the end of conversations with women.
They ask:
“Can I get your number?”
Sounds normal, right?
But that question alone tells you something important…
You’re asking for permission.
And when you do that with a woman who isn’t actually interested…
You end up with a number that goes nowhere.
No response.
No date.
Just another ghost.
I wish someone told me this sooner.
Because once I changed how I closed conversations with women, everything got easier.
Here’s the simple framework I use now.
1. Pay attention to reciprocation
Before you even think about closing, watch her energy.
Is she asking you questions?
Is she laughing and leaning into the conversation?
Is she trying to keep it going?
Or are you doing all the talking?
If she’s not reciprocating, you shouldn’t be participating.
2. Suggest plans, don’t ask
Instead of asking for her number…
Suggest doing something together.
Example:
She says she loves Jamaican food.
You say:
“Cool, we should grab Jamaican food this weekend.”
Simple.
Now she either leans in… or she doesn’t.
You’re not asking permission.
You’re seeing if she’s actually interested.
3. Have her take your number
This is the part that filters everything.
Instead of asking for her number, say:
“Take my number.”
If she’s actually interested, she’ll pull her phone out and save it immediately.
If she’s not…
You just saved yourself time and energy.
No fake numbers.
No chasing.
Just clarity.
Once I started doing this, my dating life changed quickly.
Now I’m consistently going on 2–3 dates a week, simply because I focus on women who actually show real interest.
Went on a cooking date a few days ago :)
And this is something I teach a lot of the men I work with privately.
Especially guys who are successful in business but feel rusty getting back into the dating scene, recently divorced, been out of the game for a whole, or just tired of wasting time with low-interest women.
If you want help tightening up your dating strategy and becoming the kind of man women naturally choose…
After you’ve done so, we’ll do 2 things on that call.
Diagnose the #1 thing holding you back from the dating life you want
Create a custom CEO Dating Plan to achieve it in 30 days
Book that call and I’ll talk to you soon,
Emory Booker
